Joshua’s Courage (Joshua 1:1-18)

“Have I not told you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged; for the LORD your God will be with you, wherever you go.” (Joshua 1:9)

Our Sermon series on Joshua begins with a huge change in the opening sentence of Joshua 1 where we are told of the death of Moses. Moses was the only leader an entire generation had known, and now Joshua had to lead a sometimes rebellious people into imminent war.

As recorded at St Luke’s


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Courage in times of change

What are you worried about for the future?

Notice how the act of worrying made your body feel. I had been in such a state of worry that I went to see a physio about my shoulder and his response was I had been doing this so much feeling anxious that this muscle had become overworked and tense and sore so my mind had had a long lasting physical impact on my body.

When we anticipate change in our lives, it’s good to prepare, to pray, to ponder, to process but we can often find ourselves doing something unhelpful and that’s worrying about the future, trying to take control by making decisions out of fear out of panic. Our mind full of questions. What will happen, how will I cope, am I good enough to achieve the change I want? How can I make XYZ happen? What if I’m without a home? When this happens how will I make sure I’m ok? what if what if….

When we worry, our heart rate is elevated, we get muscle tension, insomnia, brain fog, digestive issues, our immune system lowers. Worry has a physical effect on our bodies that isn’t good.

And it’s a cycle we can get trapped in, it’s called the worry cycle, as soon as we get through the worry, the next time we encounter change our brain says ‘ah worry and panic and fear are how we survived this last time so let’s try that again’

Just so we can see this danger from another angle, I wanted to share an excerpt from one of my favourite books. If you’re not a reader, listen to audiobooks, but we should all be trying to grow our Christian understanding outside of the church building on a Sunday. If you do no reading now, try a page a week. If you don’t know what to read, come and ask me.

C.S. Lewis fantastic theologian just means somebody who has studied and written about God the bible, Christian spirituality, writer of Narnia, brilliant, wrote one of my all-time favourite books called the Screwtape letters. In this he has imagined the discussions that go on between demons who are trying to turn people away from God, their scheming and planning for how to twist a human’s mind to get them to focus on anything but our salvation in Christ Jesus.

And in chapter 15 these demons talk about how to keep us in a permanent state of worry when change happens.

Our business is to get them away from the eternal, and from the Present. With this in view, we sometimes tempt a human (say a widow or a scholar) to live in the Past. But this is of limited value, for they have some real knowledge of the past and it has a determinate nature and, to that extent, resembles eternity. It is far better to make them live in the Future. Biological necessity makes all their passions point in that direction already, so that thought about the Future inflames hope and fear. Also, it is unknown to them, so that in making them think about it we make them think of unrealities. In a word, the Future is, of all things, the thing least like eternity. It is the most completely temporal part of time—for the Past is frozen and no longer flows, and the Present is all lit up with eternal rays. Hence nearly all vices are rooted in the future. Gratitude looks to the past and love to the present; fear, avarice, lust, and ambition look ahead. We want a whole race perpetually in pursuit of the rainbow’s end, never honest, nor kind, nor happy now, but always using as mere fuel wherewith to heap the altar of the future every real gift which is offered them in the Present. It follows then, in general, and other things being equal, that it is better for your patient to be filled with anxiety or hope (it doesn’t much matter which) about this war than for him to be living in the present.

So, what do we know – When we are faced with change we can worry. Worry is bad for us. Ignoring the present and the eternal, also bad for us. So how do we face change well?

Our Bible passage on Joshua today shows a big big change, it shows how God leads Joshua through the change and how the community around him echo back God’s encouragements about this change. SO, let’s dive in

We get our change in this first line ‘After the Death of Moses’

‘A death, that’s the change, and this death is of the leader of the Israelites, the only leader an entire generation had ever known. He was the prophet who spoke to God, he had shown displays of Gods power. He has been leading Gods people through the desert for 40 years.

And now here comes Joshua, who has been assisting Moses for decades, now has to lead God’s people who have been pretty terrible at rebelling and complaining against Moses. There is an imminent war as Moses has died right at the border of Canaan just before they are to conquer a territory.

There are a thousand what if possibilities for Joshua to be worried about? What if the people don’t listen to me, how can I possibly lead in the shadow of Moses, am I brave enough?

But we don’t see any of that. This is what is what we read – That God Tells him the facts ‘Moses is dead so you are going to lead’ Clear, concise path forward and what does he promise ‘I will not fail you or abandon you’. God reminds him of his promises to his people, he reminds them that he is leading them, God reminds them of his presence, his protection and his provision. God says I’ve got this – look here is the plan it’s all sorted, don’t need to worry about that at all, go do some prep and get everybody ready but the actual plan, I’m on it, its sorted, its done, I’ve got you! Be strong and courageous because I’ve got you

The God of Joshua, our God is trustworthy and with you now and forever.

Joshua is commanded to BE strong and Courageous for the Lord is with him wherever he goes. We are not to rely on ourselves. We are not to look inward at our own insecurities, our own abilities, our strength or weakness but told to look to him for our strength, to BE with him and BE courageous because he is with us. God does not say to him but come one you’re pretty good at this, look what you’ve done so far etc because we would either think we had done it all in our own strength or be flooded with worry that we weren’t brave we weren’t courageous.

Joshua is asked to study the word of God and meditate on it day and night so he will be sure to obey everything in it to prosper and succeed in all he does.

Meditate to chew over – because how will he know to lead if he doesn’t understand the one who leads. God has given him everything he already needs, and he just needs to remind himself of that.

How often do we cry out to God for a comfort, for a sign for an answer when we could instead pick up our scriptures.

I want us to practise this now as most often when we hear ‘to meditate’ we think of how other religions or cultures meditate which is to empty. But Christian Biblical meditation is closer to chewing over a truth, mulling it over, turning it over in our minds, keeping it at the forefront of our thoughts, speaking it to others sharing it through the day. So, I would love us to practise this now. I want you to go to Joshua 1:9 and pick a small part of it whether that’s ‘Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or discouraged or the lord your god is with you wherever you go’ and I want you to say it over in your mind. Is it bringing up any emotions for you, does it have weight, does it bring comfort.

Now I want you to catch the eye of someone else in the church and I want you to speak it to them all at the same time. We want to get comfortable speaking the word of God even when its messy.

Because this is the last point and you’ve all just demonstrated it for me beautifully

That The community Echoes God back to Joshua. VS 18 ‘So be strong and courageous’ We need each other. In times of change you need someone to pull you up, speak life into your situation, remind you of your God of his plans of his protection over you. Joshua needed it, a man who was speaking to God and we need it still now, what a privilege that we get to do that for each other.

So, to have courage in change we need to

1. Listen to the words God speaks over you

2. Meditate on Scripture

3. Be in Community that echoes God’s voice back to you

God does not want us to be anxious about the endless possibilities of the future but rather wants us to be free to live in the present, aware of our eternity with God through the salvation of Jesus Christ.

Reflect: What future “what-if” do you need to hand to the God who is already there?

Pray: Lord, remind me my strength comes from You. Help me leave tomorrow in Your hands and live faithfully today. Amen.

This Sunday – 5th July

“Have I not told you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged; for the LORD your God will be with you, wherever you go.”

(Joshua 1:9)

This week, the sections of the email are:

  • Opening Reflection: Joshua and a new future
  • Key notices: Putting up boards for art show, Venezuelan Earthquake Appeals
  • Coming Up: Churches Together in Ramsgate prayer breakfast, Friends of St. George’s Art Show, ACTS: Update Evening, Vicarage BBQs
  • Interesting Blogs: J.D. Vance’s Spiritual Memoir, The Nicene Sessions
  • Weekly Calendar
  • Online Forms: Event application, Submit a notice, maintenance report, Safeguarding

Scroll on…

Opening Reflection

What are you worried about for the future? Even bringing it to your mind may tense your shoulders, quicken your heart, or shallow your breathing.

So how do we face change well?

Our Sermon series on Joshua begins with a huge change in the opening sentence of Joshua 1 where we are told of the death of Moses. Moses was the only leader an entire generation had known, and now Joshua had to lead a sometimes rebellious people into imminent war.

The book of Joshua inspires us with three ways to be courageous through change:

  1. Listen to the words God speaks over you
  2. Meditate on Scripture
  3. Listen to encouragement from your Christian community and speak encouragement back to them.

God does not want us to be anxious about the endless possibilities of the future but rather wants us to be free to live in the present, aware of our eternity with God through the salvation of Jesus Christ.

Reflect: What future “what-if” do you need to hand to the God who is already there?

Pray: Lord, remind me my strength comes from You. Help me leave tomorrow in Your hands and live faithfully today. Amen.

Bethany Keenan

Key Notices:

Putting Up boards for Art Show

In preparation for the upcoming art show in St. George’s, we need help to put up the display boards. It would be great if those who are able can lend a hand in putting up one or two after the Sunday service this week. Please see Giny after the service.

Venezuela Earthquake Appeal

It has been tragic to see and hear what has happened to the people of Venezuela because of the devastating twin earthquakes just over a week ago. If you want to give to support their recovery, you can do so either through: Tear Fund or The Red Cross.

Coming Up:

Churches Together in Ramsgate, Prayer Breakfast

Saturday 4th July, 9-10am, St. Ethelbert’s Church in Ramsgate.

Friends of St. George’s Art Show

This will run from 10th to 19th July, 2-5pm, in St. George’s Church. If you want to enter a painting, drawings, prints or mixed media contact Elaine on e_hartnell@yahoo.com or Janet on 01843 852780.

ACTS: Update Evening

Monday 13th July, 7pm, St. Philip’s Church, Palm Bay, CT9 3JJ.

Join us for an evening of prayer, thanksgiving and updates about the work of ACTS. As well as a time to catch up with the ACTS team, Abi, Charlotte, Rhodri and the trustees over a cuppa and a slice of cake.

Vicarage BBQs

These will take place on Saturdays 18th and 25th July, 5-8pm. Invitations and sign-up sheets are now available at the back of the church. If you can’t make the

Interesting Blogs to Share:

JD Vance’s Spiritual Memoir

In this review of J D Vance’s book, Communion, the writer acknowledges the criticisms of Vance, whilst also seeing some helpful insights into what is motivating some men to return to faith. Read more(10 mins)

 

The Nicene Sessions

This is a new podcast series that explored the Nicene Creed one line at a time with Biblical experts. Find out more…

Weekly Calendar

Sunday 5th July – Fifth Sunday after Trinity

Eucharist (St. George’s Church) Joshua 1:1-18 – 9:30am

Monday 6th  

Prayer Meeting (St. Luke’s Church) – 9:30-10:00am

Tuesday 7th   

Prayer Meeting (St. George’s Church) – 9:30-10:00am

Community Meal (St. George’s Hall) – 5:30-7:00pm

Wednesday 8th  

Community Soup (St. George’s Church) – 12:00-2:00pm

Thursday 9th    

Prayer Meeting (St. Luke’s Church) – 9:30-10:00am

Friday 10th  

Start of Friends of St. George’s Art Show (St. George’s Church) – 2:00-5:00pm

Saturday 11th  

Prayer Meeting (St. George’s Church) – 9:30-10:00am

Community Soup (St. George’s Church) – 12:00-2:00pm

Sunday 12th – Sixth Sunday after Trinity

Eucharist (St. George’s Church) Joshua 2:1-24 – 9:30am

Sunday School (St George’s, 10:30am)

Life Groups

Will you dare to share the Christian life with others? Life groups are a great way to meet together regularly with a small group of other Christians, for mutual support, to share in reading God’s word and to pray for one another.

Please see Paul if you are interested in joining one. There are now more groups available! They meet at the following times:

  • Monday evening (two groups)
  • Tuesday afternoon
  • Wednesday morning
  • Wednesday evening
  • Thursday morning

There is also a youth life group on a Sunday afternoon.

Online Forms:

Under the ‘Contact’ tab on the website, there are now three forms that you can use to help us in managing the church:

  • Events Application Form. Use this if you are organising a church event that needs a church room booked, advertising or ticketing.
  • Submit a Notice. Use this if you want to ask us to include a prayer request or other notice in the church notice sheet or email.
  • Maintenance Reporting Form.Use this to report any non-urgent issues with our buildings or grounds.

Safeguarding

Our website is now updated with the latest information about Safeguarding and links to the Diocesan form for reporting concerns and accessing training.

Training

If you volunteer in anyway at church the national authorities you should take at least the Basic Module in safeguarding training once every three years. If you hold a role connected with vulnerable adults or children and young people, then you will also need to take the Foundation Module. Once you have completed your training, please forward that certificate to James, our administrator, (office@churchramsgate.org) so that we can keep records of who has done the training.

Finally, let’s hand the future over to God,

Yours in Christ

Paul Worledge

(Priest in Charge, St. George’s Ramsgate)

Joshua’s First Battle (Exodus 17:8-13)

“I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being,” (Ephesians 3:16)

This Sunday we begin a series on Joshua. He started off as Moses’ main assistant and ended up taking over from Moses, when Israel entered the Promised Land. This week, we begin with the first time Joshua plays a significant role in the story, when he leads the Israelites as they defend against an attack by the Amalekites. Then from next week, we will be looking at the book of Joshua, which describes what Israel did under Joshua’s leadership.

As recorded at St. Luke’s

Life is full of battles

Life is full of battles. In the last few weeks, we have been looking at the fruit of the Spirit, how as God’s people we are to take on the characteristics of God: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. But, we all find that at least with some of those characteristics it is a battle to develop them in our lives.

Life as a Christian in our world, can feel like a battle. Sometimes, people can ridicule or belittle your faith. Others can seem uninterested or dismissive of the Christian faith. When there is so much negativity around us, it can feel like a battle to remain and shine as a Christian.

Life as a Church together can feel like a battle. Working to keep the show on the road, to deal with divisions and tensions, lack of support or grief at those we have lost. Being part of a Christian community is not easy and it can feel like a real battle to become the kind of community Jesus wants us to be.

In today’s Bible story, we heard about the first battle Israel thought as a nation after they were rescued from being slaves in Egypt. We are not told much about the actual fighting. In verse 10, we are told Joshua goes out to fight the Amalekites, in verse 11, we are told sometimes the Israelites were winning and sometimes the Amalekites, then in verse 13, we are told Joshua won against the Amalekites. Hardly, the kind of in depth analysis we are given after an England football match!

What we are told about is the real secret behind how Joshua won.

Moses’ Staff

As part of the story, Moses’ staff features. Why was this staff important?

When God called Moses to lead Israel out of Egypt,

he told him to take the staff and he said this:

“This,” said the LORD, “is so that they may believe that the LORD, the God of their fathers–the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac and the God of Jacob–has appeared to you.” (Exodus 4:5)

In other words the staff became a sign that God was with Moses,

and that it was God’s help that was the secret weapon.

So, in many of the times God acted against Israel,

he told Moses to use the staff as a symbol of God’s presence.

Let’s go through them quickly…

1 child to hold rod. Strike the ground.

=>Explain the story…

Response:

Moses defeated the Egyptians

God is with us.

  1. Staff turns into snake. Egyptian’s do a similar trick, but Moses’s snake eats all of theirs. (7:9-10,12)
  2. Plague of water turning into blood. (7:17)
  3. Plague of frogs (8:5)
  4. Plague of Gnats (8:16)
  5. Plague of Hail (9:23)
  6. Plague of Locusts (10:13)
  7. Dividing the Red Sea (14:16)

So, 7 times the staff symbolised that God was with Moses and gave him victory over the Egyptians.

Water from the rock (17:5)

But now Israel had escaped Egypt and were travelling through the wilderness and had come to a place called Rephidim.

Was God still with them? At first it felt like he wasn’t. There was no water at Rephidim. But, God once again told Moses to use the staff. He was to strike the rock and water would come out. Moses did what God said, he struck the rock with the staff and water came flooding out.

Battle with the Amalekites:

Now, when Israel was in the wilderness they were attached by the Amalekites.

Perhaps the Amalekites wanted to take Israel’s water,

or steal their possessions.

This attack was an act of terrible bullying.

Tug of war… rope with card over it: Fighting the Amalekites…

When the rod is held up the Israelites were winning, when it was lowered they were losing. (Have ‘God’ a strong man, help the Israelites, only when the rod is held up, set it up, so that the Amalekites are a bit better than the Israelites)

But, Moses’s hands become tired. He can’t keep lifting them up.

So, they gave him a chair to sit on…

Finally, Aaron and Hur come to the rescue. They hold up Moses’s hands. So in this way Joshua is able to win the battle and God saves Israel from Amalek.

Eventually, Israel won the battle.

How did Israel win?

  1. Joshua needed to fight (sword)

In human terms, it was Joshua’s leadership and the men who fought with him that won the battle. As it says in verse 13,

‘So, Joshua overcame the Amalekites with the sword.’

Israel had been slaves in Egypt, they had never before fought a battle. They didn’t know how to. What is more they were in an unfamiliar place, away from the river valley of the Nile in the wilderness.

The Amalekites, on the other hand were on familiar territory and probably used to fighting battles. They saw Israel as an easy target for the Amalekites to attack, presumably hoping to defeat them and win a lot of booty.

So, Israel could not win without help.

  1. Moses needed to pray (rod)

Israel may have been relatively weak in the face of the Amalekites, but with God on their side, they were able to overcome.

So, Moses prayed. He called on God’s help by holding the staff up, the symbol of God’s victorious presence with them. When he prayed, the Israelites beat the Amalekites.

How did Israel win, through prayer and God’s help.

But, prayer is not easy. It can be hard work. Moses could not easily keep the rod held up. Moses could not pray without help…

  1. Aaron and Hur needed to support Moses

So, Aaron and Hur, helped Moses. They found him a chair or a rock to sit on, and they held up his arms, so he could hold up the rod. In this way, Moses could keep on praying and so Joshua could keep on winning the battle and Israel ultimately defeated the Amalekites?

How did Israel defeat the Amalekites?

Was it Joshua’s willingness to fight? Yes.

Was it Moses’ willingness to pray? Yes

Was it Aaron and Hur’s support of Moses? Yes

All three groups had to play their part in helping to ensure the victory. But ultimately, they won because God was with them and defended the vulnerable Israelites against the bullying Amalekites.

How do we win life’s battles today?

So, when we think of what happens in this battle, we can see that it is a useful pattern for all the battles we face.

Someone needs to act, but they need prayer and even the person praying needs support.

Fruit of the Spirit (hang on rope)

So how do we win the battle of developing the fruit of the spirit in our lives?

We need to act. We need to recognise where we need to show love, to focus on God’s blessings so we can be joyful, on his security, so we can know peace. We need to look for acts of kindness we can show, make sure we stick by our word even when it hurts and not give in to temptation.

We need to pray. In our own efforts we will keep failing, but with God’s help we can win the battle. So, pray for God to help you develop the fruit of the Spirit more and more. Perhaps reflecting on which ones you struggle with most and asking for God’s special help in those areas.

We need prayer support. But often we become tired of praying. We need the support of others to pray for and with us. You can do this with your family or perhaps set up a prayer triplet, so you can have your own Aaron and Hur to support you, people you can share your struggles with and ask for their support. Or you could join one of our Life Groups and ask for support in these areas for prayer.

Vision 2030

As we move forward with our vision for our churches, we need to work to take action. We need people applying for the grants that we need and working together to agree the best plans. We need the action.

But we also need to pray. Over the last year, we have been meeting once a month for our Dare to Pray prayer meetings. These have been a massive help to me in this process. The people who come to these prayer meetings, are like the Moses, Aaron and Hur in the battle of seeking to transform the churches for the future.

Everyone has a Part to Play

It may be that due to ill health or old age, there is little you can do in terms of action. Like Moses, you are not capable of fighting the battle, but you can sit on the hill and pray.

So, why not find ways to support others in prayer. That may be by joining us at one of our prayer meetings or being part of a life group. Or it may simple be about getting to know one or two younger people in the church and asking them how you can pray to support them in their life’s struggles.

We’re never too old to pray. And as we have seen, prayer is crucial to helping people win the Spiritual battles that we all face.

So, in life’s battles, let’s act, let’s pray and let’s offer support in prayer!

This Sunday – 28th June

“I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being,”

(Ephesians 3:16)

This week, the sections of the email are:

  • Opening Reflection: Introducing Joshua
  • Key notices: Dare to Pray, Wendy Fuller’s Thanksgiving Service, ACTS Update, Thanet Prayer Diary
  • Coming Up: Thanet Wide Prayer Meeting, Friends of St. George’s Art Show, ACTS: Update Evening, Vicarage BBQs
  • Interesting Blogs: Revolving Door at No. 10, The World Cup: 47 out of 48 teams will lose
  • Weekly Calendar
  • Online Forms: Event application, Submit a notice, maintenance report, Safeguarding

Scroll on…

Opening Reflection

This Sunday we begin a series on Joshua. He started off as Moses’ main assistant and ended up taking over from Moses, when Israel entered the Promised Land. This week, we begin with the first time Joshua plays a significant role in the story, when he leads the Israelites as they defend against an attack by the Amalekites. Then from next week, we will be looking at the book of Joshua, which describes what Israel did under Joshua’s leadership.

The story involves lots of battles and fighting. However, the Bible does not focus on military tactics or the glorification of war, but the importance of faith, courage and obedience. Israel cannot win without God’s help, but neither is God a secret weapon in their arsenal. God is the one who is blessing Israel and judging the nations they fight against. He needs to remain their ultimate leader.

Which brings us to Joshua’s battle against the Amalekites. The battle is not won because Joshua is a great general or Israel a superior fighting force; Israel are a group of recently defeated slaves, who have no experience of battle in an unfamiliar wilderness fighting against an Amalekite force who are on their home ground and used to fighting. On paper Israel have no hope. But God is with them and he enables them to win.

The Biblical narrative demonstrates this by focussing on the prayer of Moses. When Moses lifts his hands in prayer, the Israelites are winning, but when his arms drop through tiredness, Israel loses. With the help of others, Moses’ arms are propped up and the battle is eventually won.

As Christians, we will only find strength for the metaphorical battles of this life, with God’s help, when we pray and when we seek the support of others in prayer. As churches facing some big challenges and changes, it is important that we support one another in prayer. Why not join us for the Dare to Prayer meeting on Saturday, 9:30-10:30am at St. George’s.

Paul Worledge

Key Notices:

Dare to Pray

Join us as we pray for the future vision for our churches, this Saturday, 9:30-10:30am at St. George’s.

Wendy Fuller’s Thanksgiving Service

Everyone who knew Wendy is welcome to join us for this thanksgiving service on Saturday, 2:30pm at St. George’s. There will be refreshments after the service. People are encouraged to dress brightly and not in black.

ACTS Update

Copies of the latest update are available at the back of church, or you can access them here: page 1, page 2

Thanet Prayer Diary

Copies available at the back of church or download.

Coming Up:

Thanet Wide Prayer Meeting:

There will be a Thanet Wide united prayer meeting at Hardres Street United Church in Ramsgate this Sunday 28th June 2026 at 6:30pm. Everyone welcome.

Friends of St. George’s Art Show

This will run from 10th to 19th July, 2-5pm, in St. George’s Church. If you want to enter a painting, drawings, prints or mixed media contact Elaine on e_hartnell@yahoo.com or Janet on 01843 852780.

ACTS: Update Evening

Monday 13th July, 7pm, St. Philip’s Church, Palm Bay, CT9 3JJ.

Join us for an evening of prayer, thanksgiving and updates about the work of ACTS. As well as a time to catch up with the ACTS team, Abi, Charlotte, Rhodri and the trustees over a cuppa and a slice of cake.

Vicarage BBQs

These will take place on Saturdays 18th and 25th July, 5-8pm. Invitations to come.

Interesting Blogs to Share:

Revolving Door at number 10

In this article Paul Wolley, the CEO of the London Institute for Contemporary Christianity argues that complex times require leaders who can act for the long term… Read more (4 mins)

The World Cup: 47 out of 48 teams will lose

Graham Tomlinson reflects on losing and how we should deal with it. Read more (5 mins)

Weekly Calendar

Sunday 28th June – Fourth Sunday after Trinity

Eucharist (St. George’s Church) Exodus 17:8-16 – 9:30am

Thanet-wide Prayer Gathering (United Church, Hardres Street) – 6.30pm

Monday 29th  

Prayer Meeting (St. Luke’s Church) – 9:30-10:00am

Tuesday 30th   

Prayer Meeting (St. George’s Church) – 9:30-10:00am

Community Meal (St. George’s Hall) – 5:30-7:00pm

Wednesday 1st July 

Community Soup (St. George’s Church) – 12:00-2:00pm

Thursday 2nd   

Prayer Meeting (St. Luke’s Church) – 9:30-10:00am

Saturday 4th  

CTiR Prayer Breakfast (St. Ethelbert’s Church) – 9:00-10:00am

Community Soup (St. George’s Church) – 12:00-2:00pm

Sunday 5th – Fifth Sunday after Trinity

Eucharist (St. George’s Church) Joshua 1:1-18 – 9:30am

Life Groups

Will you dare to share the Christian life with others? Life groups are a great way to meet together regularly with a small group of other Christians, for mutual support, to share in reading God’s word and to pray for one another.

Please see Paul if you are interested in joining one. There are now more groups available! They meet at the following times:

  • Monday evening (two groups)
  • Tuesday afternoon
  • Wednesday morning
  • Wednesday evening
  • Thursday morning

There is also a youth life group on a Sunday afternoon.

Online Forms:

Under the ‘Contact’ tab on the website, there are now three forms that you can use to help us in managing the church:

  • Events Application Form. Use this if you are organising a church event that needs a church room booked, advertising or ticketing.
  • Submit a Notice. Use this if you want to ask us to include a prayer request or other notice in the church notice sheet or email.
  • Maintenance Reporting Form.Use this to report any non-urgent issues with our buildings or grounds.

Safeguarding

Our website is now updated with the latest information about Safeguarding and links to the Diocesan form for reporting concerns and accessing training.

Training

If you volunteer in anyway at church the national authorities you should take at least the Basic Module in safeguarding training once every three years. If you hold a role connected with vulnerable adults or children and young people, then you will also need to take the Foundation Module. Once you have completed your training, please forward that certificate to James, our administrator, (office@churchramsgate.org) so that we can keep records of who has done the training.

Finally, let’s support one another in prayer.

Yours in Christ

Paul Worledge

(Priest in Charge, St. George’s Ramsgate)

Fruit of the Spirit: Self-Control (2 Peter 1:1-11)

“Like a city whose walls are broken down is a person who lacks self-control.” (Proverbs 25:28)

The Proverb above says, that if we lack self-control, we are like a city without walls. We become defenceless – not from external attack, but to our own destructive behaviours.

Self-control is a guard for our life. Without it all the other characteristics of the fruit of the Spirit become worthless. Listen, watch this Sunday to find out more…

As recorded at St. Luke’s

Fruit of the Spirit: Self- Control (2 Peter 1:1-11)

Giving up tea and coffee…

Are you in control of yourself?

Early last year on a Tuesday, I woke up and did my normal routine, coffee breakfast, off to prayers, staff meeting and back home to work. But I found myself much more tired and grumpy than normal. And as the day went on it wasn’t getting better.

After lunch, I was feeling so bad, I tried lying down for a bit. But when I woke up, I still felt bad! Then came a eureka moment. The coffee I had made myself in the morning had been decaffeinated, because we had run out of caffeinated coffee. I was suffering from caffein withdrawal. So, I ran to Aldi, bought some caffeinated coffee and quickly recovered.

However, the experience made me think. Who is in control of my life? Me or caffeine? Lent began soon after, so I decided to give up tea and coffee for Lent. Then at the end of Lent, I decided to give it up for good. I enjoyed not being enslaved to caffeine, not having to worry about having to chase my next fix, and I think I felt less stressed and I wasn’t tired in the same way. I felt more in control of my own life.

 Now I am not saying everyone should give up coffee. Although, it is addictive, it is not harmful and arguably it may have some good effects. For me, however, regaining control from caffeine felt like a positive win.

 Self-control is freedom. It is freedom from control by our inner desires. Freedom to do what we know to be right, rather to be ruled by our natural and often evil impulses.

Fruit of the Spirit

Today, we are finishing our series on the Fruit of the Spirit, the list of characteristics that Paul says, we gain as Christians as we learn to walk in step with God’s Spirit, as we become more like God in our characteristics.

Before he comes to the Fruit of the Spirit, Paul talks about our freedom as Christians:

“You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the sinful nature (or the flesh); rather, serve one another in love.” (Galatians 5:13)

He then lists, many examples of works of the flesh, before encouraging us to take on the fruit of the Spirit. Heading up the list and so taking the place of prime importance is ‘Love.’

But the last place in the list, also carries with it importance. And self-control is the last characteristic to be mentioned. Why does it hold such importance? Because the passage is all about self-control. Not giving in to the evil desires that destroy the world, the works of the flesh, but living in a way that pleases God.

Self-Control in thought down the ages:

Down the ages and across cultures, self-control has been viewed as a trait than helps us to be good and effective people.

 In modern times, ― Stephen R. Covey, in his book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People says:

“The ability to subordinate an impulse to a value is the essence of the proactive person.”

 During the Renaissance, Leonardo da Vinci said,

“One can have no smaller or greater mastery than mastery of oneself.”

Back in Ancient Greece, Zeno of Citium, the founder of Stoicism said,

“Man conquers the world by conquering himself.”

But it is not just Greek or Western thought, Lao Tzu, a legendary Chinese Philosopher said,

“Mastering others is strength. Mastering yourself is true power.”

Seeing self-control as a virtue, is not specifically Christian. Indeed, when the New Testament was being written, Stoicism was a popular philosophy in the Roman empire and Stoicism saw self-control as one of the most important virtues.

Why have self-control?

So, why have self-control? I want to suggest two reasons.

It Guards Us

Firstly, it guards us. There is a verse in Proverbs, which says:

“Like a city whose walls are broken down

is a man who lacks self-control.” (Proverbs 25:28)

In the ancient world, city walls, were a crucial guard against enemies who might come and raid your city, destroying and pillaging all that mattered to you. Without city walls, you were very vulnerable to raids and destruction. Even today, we spend lots of money on defence to make sure our country is protected from attack by enemies who might want to destroy us. You only have to look at what has happened to some parts of Ukraine, to see what happens when you cannot defend yourself against an aggressive neighbour.

But, on a personal level, self-control acts as a guard, not on threats from without, but from self-destruction. If we do not have control over our evil desires, then we will fall into behaviours that might destroy our life.

Many of those behaviours are what Paul lists as the works of the flesh in Galatians 5, before he talks about the fruit of the Spirit.

  • If you do not keep your sexual desires under control, then you are in danger of being drawn into an affair and ruining your marriage.
  • If you do not keep your curiosity for spiritualism or witchcraft under control, you may end up opening yourself up to evil spiritual influences.
  • If you do not keep your impulse to be angry under control, you may lash out at those around you whom you love and cause damage to them and your relationships.
  • If you do not keep your desire to be successful under control, you may end up walking over others in your desire to climb the career ladder.
  • If you do not keep your desires for drink or drugs under control, you may end up destroying your physical health or wasting all your money on them.

The list could go on and on. But you get the point. If we can control ourselves, then we can guard against the destruction that our evil desires or lusts might lead us into.

In 2 Peter, after giving a list of virtues including self-control, he says:

“Therefore, my brothers and sisters, be all the more eager to make your calling and election sure. For if you do these things, you will never fall,” (2 Peter 1:10)

 Self-control acts as a guard to us from falling away from God and back into a life dominated by sin.

It Grows Us

Secondly and more positively, self-control helps to grow us.

 In 1 Corinthians, Paul says:

“Everyone who competes in the games goes into strict training. They do it to get a crown that will not last; but we do it to get a crown that will last for ever.” (1 Corinthians 9:25)

 If you want to be a success in sport, then you need self-discipline, which is a form of self-control. As we watch the World Cup, with the top players in the world competing against each other, it is easy to forget, the commitment and training that it has taken them to reach the highest levels of the sport.

 Why is Harry Kane England’s top goal scorer? Partly, because he has amazing natural ability, but also because he has the self-control and self-discipline to train over many years and to keep at it. He could have all the natural ability in the world, but without the self-discipline and training, he would be a mere spectator like the rest of us.

 But Paul’s point is not to become a successful athlete. His goal is something more important than winning the World Cup, it is winning eternal life. It is as Jesus put it, ‘storing up riches in heaven.’

 Our passage in 2 Peter, also makes this point. It lists a number of qualities, including, self-control, and concludes:

 “For if you possess these qualities in increasing measure, they will keep you from being ineffective and unproductive in your knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ.” (2 Peter 1:8)

Self-control helps us to achieve things for God. To do the good deeds, that God has prepared in advance for us to do and ultimately as Jesus puts it, ‘to build up treasures in heaven’, so that as 2 Peter says:

“…and you will receive a rich welcome into the eternal kingdom of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ.” (2 Peter 1:11)

How do we gain self-control?

So, if self-control is so important, how do we gain self-control as Christians? How do we gain this ability that guards us, and grows us as Christians?

Some people have it more naturally than others, and others have it because they were trained in it well by their parents when they were brought up. But, as Christians, whether we have it naturally or not, and whether we had good parenting or not, we can have self- control. How?

Well, the key comes at the start of the passage in 2 Peter 1:

“His divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness.” (2 Peter 1:3)

Jesus gives us everything we need for life and godliness. It is by knowing Jesus, being in a relationship with him – which is what being a Christian is – that gives us the power we need for life and godliness.

Often when you buy furniture online, it arrives in a flat pack. You have everything you need to make your piece of furniture, but you need to actually put it together for it to be any use. I remember when we were first married, we bought a lot of furniture that was flat packed. Most of it we put together, but there were some boxes that remained unpacked. We had all we needed for the set of shelves, but the box remained unopened for years. It remained useless.

For many Christians, God has given us all we need for a godly life, but we have done nothing to construct the life he wants from us. Peter says, in verse 5,

“For this reason, make every effort…”

So, what are we to do? The list suggests adding one thing to the next. It starts with faith and ends with love. We build from faith to love. Faith is the foundation. Love is the goal.

Everything else, flows out of our faith and towards the goal of love: goodness, knowledge, self-control, perseverance godliness and mutual affection.  

So, how do we grow in self-control? We build it on the foundation of faith and with the goal of love.

To build on the foundation of faith, means to recognise what Jesus has done for us and continues to do for us.

  1. He died for our sins. It says in Galatians 5:24

“Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the sinful nature of flesh with its passions and desires.” (Galatians 5:24)

Jesus died because of the sins arising from our sinful nature or flesh. When we focus on the cross, we remember how serious our sins are and how much it cost Jesus to deal with them. So, in a sense we crucify them.

If you are struggling to control a specific evil desire in your life, then remind yourself what Jesus did to rescue you from the consequences of that sin.

  1. He gives us His Spirit.

“Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit.” (Galatians 5:25)

Jesus does not leave us alone. He is there to help us and train us by His Spirit. As we spend time with God in prayer, so we draw on his strength, to give us the self-control needed to control those evil desires. Don’t let time with God be squeezed out of your life, practice a deeper dependence on him for the support you need to gain self-control.

So, our faith is the foundation, but love is the goal. We need to remember the benefits of self-control, and it is to help us better love those around us, to be effective in our care for one another. You cannot love others, if you are controlled by drink of drugs. You cannot love others, if you are motivated by greed for self-gain or selfish ambition. You cannot love others, if you are overcome by fits of rage.

 If you are struggling with self-control, ask God to help you remember the goal. To show love through good deeds to those around you.

Conclusion:

Self-control is so important. Many cultures recognise that. We need it to guard ourselves from self-destructive traits, we need it to succeed in our life’s goals.

The great news is that as Christians, we have all the resources we need to grow in self-control and so achieve the true Christian freedom and love that God calls us to.

 As Paul says,

 “You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the sinful nature (or the flesh); rather, serve one another in love.” (Galatians 5:13)

This Sunday – 21st June

“Like a city whose walls are broken down is a person who lacks self-control.”

(Proverbs 25:28)

This week, the sections of the email are:

  • Opening Reflection: Fruit of the Spirit: Self-Control
  • Key notices: Service Team Leaders Needed
  • Coming Up: Midsummer Yard Sale and Open Day, Men’s Group Croquet, Dare to Pray Meeting, Wendy Fuller’s Thanksgiving Service, Friends of St. George’s Art Show, Vicarage BBQs
  • Interesting Blogs: Class and Evangelicalism in Britain, Dyslexia: Superpower or Challenge to be Acknowledged
  • Weekly Calendar
  • Online Forms: Event application, Submit a notice, maintenance report, Safeguarding

Scroll on…

Opening Reflection

There is a lot of debate in the news at the moment about the level of funding needed to defend our country. Indeed, only last week, the Defence Secretary resigned, because he felt the government’s agreed increasing in funding was insufficient for the defence of the country. Defence matters, because without defence we risk losing control of our country to an agressor, like Vadimir Putin. Such an outcome would be catastrophic.

In Bible times, one of the most important forms of defence was the city wall. Citizens would spend lots of money to build a wall, to make sure they could defend themselves against hostile raiders, or hold out against invading armies, whilst they waited for their own army to turn up and rescue them. If the walls were broken down, then the city was left defenceless and in danger of losing control to any enemy who invaded.

The Proverb above says, that if we lack self-control, we are like a city without walls. We become defenceless – not from  external attack, but to our own destructive behaviours.

We need self-control to stop ruining our health, through lack of exercise, overeating, alcohol or drug abuse. It is also necessary to control what we say, so that we don’t blurt something out that makes us look stupid, gives away a secret or causes offence or hurt to those we love. At a more extreme level, if you are someone prone to bouts of anger, you need self-control to stop your anger flaring up when provoked so that you end up attacking someone violently.

In all these areas and more, self-control is a guard for our life. Without it all the other characteristics of the fruit of the Spirit become worthless. Join us this Sunday to find out more…

Paul Worledge

Key Notices:

Service Team Leaders Needed

We are looking for people to go on a rota to help us run our Sunday services by opening and setting up the church before the service and clearing up after the service. If you can help in this way, then please speak to Paul or Mark.

Coming Up:

Midsummer Yard Sale and Open Day

10am-3pm, Saturday 20th June, St. George’s Church. Encourage people to come along! If you can help with a tower or crypt tour on the day, then please let Paul know asap. You can now purchase tickets for the tours on the website.

Men’s Group – Croquet

On Tuesday 23rd June, at 5:30 for 6pm, the men’s group are holding a Croquet Evening at the Croquet Club on the Ramsgate Royal Esplanade (near the boating pool). It is £10 each. Please let Bruce know asap if you would like to come (07708 682464, brucestikes@btinternet.com).

Dare to Pray, Prayer Meeting

Due to clashes on 20th June, the Dare to Pray prayer meeting this month will be on Saturday 27th June, 9:30-10:30am at St. George’s Church

Wendy Fuller’s Thanksgiving Service

Saturday 27th June, 2:30pm at St. George’s. Everyone who knew Wendy is welcome to attend.

Friends of St. George’s Art Show

This will run from 10th to 19th July, 2-5pm, in St. George’s Church. If you want to enter a painting, drawings, prints or mixed media contact Elaine on e_hartnell@yahoo.com or Janet on 01843 852780.

Vicarage BBQs

These will take place on Saturdays 18th and 25th July, 5-8pm. Invitations to come.

Interesting Blogs to Share:

Class and Evangelicalism in Britain

In this more academic paper, Kirsten Birkett explores the topic of class as understood in Britain and why the evangelical church has not been great at reaching the working classes. Read more… (Long read)

Dyslexia: A Superpower or a Challenge to be Acknowledged

In this 6 minute read, Zoe Strong reflects on an interview with Tom Holland, the actor where he shares the challenges he faces because of his dyslexia. Read more…

Weekly Calendar

Sunday 21st June – Third Sunday after Trinity

Eucharist (St. George’s Church) 2 Peter 1:1-11 – 9:30am

Monday 22nd  

Prayer Meeting (St. Luke’s Church) – 9:30-10:00am

Tuesday 23rd  

Prayer Meeting (St. George’s Church) – 9:30-10:00am

Community Meal (St. George’s Hall) – 5:30-7:00pm

Men’s Group Croquet (Croquet Club, West Esplanade) – from 5:30pm

Wednesday 24th 

Community Soup (St. George’s Church) – 12:00-2:00pm

Thursday 25th  

Prayer Meeting (St. Luke’s Church) – 9:30-10:00am

Saturday 27th  

Dare to Pray Meeting (St. George’s Church) – 9:30-10:30am

Community Soup (St. George’s Church) – 12:00-2:00pm

Thanksgiving service for Wendy Fuller (St. George’s Church) – 2:30pm

Sunday 28th – Fourth Sunday after Trinity

Eucharist (St. George’s Church) 2 Peter 1:1-11 – 9:30am

Thanet-wide Prayer Gathering (United Church, Hardres Street) – 6.30pm

Life Groups

Will you dare to share the Christian life with others? Life groups are a great way to meet together regularly with a small group of other Christians, for mutual support, to share in reading God’s word and to pray for one another.

Please see Paul if you are interested in joining one. There are now more groups available! They meet at the following times:

  • Monday evening (two groups)
  • Tuesday afternoon
  • Wednesday morning
  • Wednesday evening
  • Thursday morning

There is also a youth life group on a Sunday afternoon.

Online Forms:

Under the ‘Contact’ tab on the website, there are now three forms that you can use to help us in managing the church:

  • Events Application Form. Use this if you are organising a church event that needs a church room booked, advertising or ticketing.
  • Submit a Notice. Use this if you want to ask us to include a prayer request or other notice in the church notice sheet or email.
  • Maintenance Reporting Form.Use this to report any non-urgent issues with our buildings or grounds.

Safeguarding

Our website is now updated with the latest information about Safeguarding and links to the Diocesan form for reporting concerns and accessing training.

Training

If you volunteer in anyway at church the national authorities you should take at least the Basic Module in safeguarding training once every three years. If you hold a role connected with vulnerable adults or children and young people, then you will also need to take the Foundation Module. Once you have completed your training, please forward that certificate to James, our administrator, (office@churchramsgate.org) so that we can keep records of who has done the training.

Finally, let’s ask for God’s help to keep control of ourselves.

Yours in Christ

Paul Worledge

(Priest in Charge, St. George’s Ramsgate)

Fruit of the Spirit: Gentleness (Galatians 6:1-10)

“Brothers and sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently.” (Galatians 6:1a)

As Christians we want to challenge one another to become more Christ like, but if we try to push someone to change too quickly or too aggressively, then they may not be able to cope and just leave the church or give up on faith. That is why the verse above says, that when someone is caught in a sin, we need to go about restoring them gently.

As recorded at St. Luke’s

Fruit of the Spirit: Gentleness

A Less Gentle World

It feels like we are living in a less gentle world.

The events earlier this week in Northern Ireland illustrate this well. First there was the horrific attack where a man in the street tried to cut off the head of another man with a knife. That in itself was hardly a gentle act and was rightly condemned.

But what happened next was even less gentle. Because the original assailant was a migrant, gangs of men went around from house to house looking for migrants and setting their homes on fire. Anger and violence is certainly the opposite of gentleness. Indeed, this was a massive escalation, attacking and terrorising a whole community in response to the attack of one deranged man.

This was one incident, but it reflects a growing trend fuelled by social media. On social media, where you cannot see the person you are talking to, it is much more common to respond aggressively or harshly than with a gentle word. Indeed, aggression and outrage are far more likely to create engagement on social media, than a gentle calm comment. Social media itself seems to be promoting a less gentle world.

The Fruit of the Spirit: How do we develop Gentleness?

But as Christians we are called to gentleness. We are going through a series on the fruit of the Spirit, the kind of godly traits we develop, the more we learn to live in step with the spirit. Today, we are looking at the second to last trait: ‘gentleness.’

So, how do we develop gentleness?

Imitate our Gentle Messiah

We can see that ‘gentleness’ is a godly trait, by looking at the gentle Messiah, the Son of God, Jesus Christ.

In the Old Testament, Zechariah forecast the Messiah, God’s promised king for his people, coming to Jerusalem with this prophecy:

“Rejoice greatly, O Daughter of Zion! Shout, Daughter of Jerusalem! See, your king comes to you, righteous and having salvation, gentle and riding on a donkey, on a colt, the foal of a donkey.” (Zechariah 9:9; cf. Matthew 21:5)

 In Zechariah’s day and in Jesus’ day, the great kings did not ride donkeys they rode war horses. The horse was the symbol of military might and strength. Many empires had come and gone, and they had risen to power through military might, symbolised by the power of the horse. You didn’t become king by being gentle, you became king by crushing your opponents.

But, Zechariah, said God’s king would be different. He would come gently and riding on a donkey. Jesus embraced the prophecy. He deliberately rode into Jerusalem on a donkey as the crowds proclaimed him king.

His power came not by killing his enemies, but by dying for his friends. He builds a kingdom with gentleness and humility, not imposing his will on others, but offering forgiveness and a new way to live.

As Christians, Jesus is our hero. The more we reflect on his gentle character, the more we will learn to be gentle ourselves.

Be confident in His Grace

We can see in Jesus, that gentleness is closely linked to humility. Indeed, the word for gentleness in the Greek is almost the same as the word for humility. Gentleness is not imposing yourself on others but treating others as better than yourselves.

 The verse before our reading from Galatians, which comes immediately after the passage on the fruit of the Spirit says,

 “Let us not become conceited, provoking and envying each other.” (Galatians 5:26)

Conceit is boasting in our own abilities, our own works. But a conceited nature does not lead to gentleness, it loves to make others feel less worthy than ourselves. Such an attitude seeks to put down the other.

Paul, however, does not want to boast in himself:

 “But I do not want to boast, except in the cross of our lord Jesus Christ, through whom the world has been crucified to me and I to the world.” (Galatians 6:14)

 His boast is in the cross, as the source of salvation. We are saved by Christ’s gracious sacrifice, not by our own works. If you are saved by grace, you can be both confident and humble. Confident, because you know Jesus has secured your place in God’s home, despite your failings, but also humble, because it was Jesus who did it not you. And with confidence and humility, you can be gentle with others. Gentleness grows out of a deeper understanding that we are saved by grace and so boast in the cross and not our own works.

Pray first!

The third way to grow in gentleness is through prayer about what is causing you anxiety.

One of the most helpful set of verses come in Philippians 4. Philippians itself is a book, which has as a major theme humility. But in chapter 4, he turns to a dispute in the church and gives some advice as to how to bring an end to the dispute.

He says,

Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 4:5-7)

You can see here, two of the attitudes that promote reconciliation in a conflict. Gentleness and prayer that leads to peace. Yet, I think these are entwined.

Disputes often arise out of our anxieties, and most of us find that the more anxious we are about an issue, the harder we find it to be gentle in our treatment of others. So, Paul gives us the solution to anxiety: prayer. When we pray about what is worrying us rather than being anxious about it, we discover the peace of God, that gives us a deep security and removes our anxiety. When we have this peace in ourselves it is much easier to be gentle with others. How do we learn gentleness? Pray about our anxieties.

Gentleness in Action:

So, what does gentleness look like in action?

In Restoring Others:

Firstly, gentleness is important in the way we go about restoring Christians who are caught up in some sin or other. The first verse of our passage says,

“Brothers, if someone is caught in a sin, you who are spiritual should restore him gently. But watch yourself, or you also may be tempted.” (Galatians 6:1)

Notice it says, ‘you who are spiritual’. Remember, this verse comes only a few verses, after Paul has spoken about the fruit of the Spirit and immediately after the verse about not being conceited. To be ‘spiritual’ here, does not mean someone who does lots of religious stuff, it means someone who has learnt to walk in step with the Spirit, who exhibits the qualities of the fruit of the Spirit, who is not conceited, but has understood the gospel and so is both confident and humble in their faith.

This is the kind of person who is most likely to be able to help someone back to a confident faith after they’ve fallen into sin, or to know how to help someone out of sin.

But Paul also says, they should do so gently.

When people first become Christians, there may be all kinds of ways, in which their lifestyles are out of sync with how the Bible teaches us to live. They may have drink or drug issues, be in unmarried sexual relationships, be claiming benefits when they could be working, addicted to gambling, swear a lot, have a short temper and so on. They are not going to change overnight.  God does not expect them to change overnight. We know from reading the Bible, that God called and worked through imperfect people.

So, gentleness and patience must be combined. We don’t bully or harass people to change, we gently teach, encourage and support them and allow God to work in their lives to transform them. That is what it means to be gentle with people.

I was at a conference this week and a lady spoke about when she first came back to church after some time away. At the time she was out of work and using lots of excuses not to bother applying. One excuse was that it was hard to get to interviews, because she had no transport. The Christians around her could have just told her to buck her ideas up and try harder, but they did something amazing and gentle. They clubbed together and bought her a cheap £500 car, so that she could get to interviews. Through generosity and gentleness, she was encouraged to get into work. Now she is a CEOof a charity, a Christian author and speaker at conferences!

In Reconciliation:

Gentleness is also important if we want to seek reconciliation when there are arguments withing the church community.

 As it says in Proverbs:

“A gentle answer turns away wrath,

but a harsh word stirs up anger.”

(Proverbs 15:1)

If we respond angrily to disagreement, then we will stoke up anger and might soon end up falling out or the church dividing and falling apart. The better way is to respond with gentleness. This is true even if others are clearly in the wrong.

Paul’s advice to Timothy in dealing with someone who oppose his teaching. He says of the Lord’s servant:

“Those who oppose him he must gently instruct, in the hope that God will grant them repentance leading them to a knowledge of the truth,” (2 Timothy 2:25)

In other words, the secret to tackling those with wrong ideas is not to shout them down, cut them out or try and turn everyone else against them, it is to gently instruct them in the truth.

Let’s be honest there are plenty of issues around that we disagree on as Christians and historically, the multitude of denominations points to the fact that we have not always been able to resolve these differences gently.

Today, when people turn up to church and see angry discord in the church they tend to quickly walk back out the door. I met someone a few months ago who had gone on a pilgrimage to the Holy Land and was inspired to try church again when they returned. Unfortunately, their first time in church was at a particularly contentious annual meeting and they were totally put off!

It is crucial that we learn to deal with those we disagree with in the church with gentleness.

In Reaching Out:

But this also extends to those outside the church. If we want to persuade people to turn to Jesus in faith, we need to do so gently.

It says in Proverbs:

“Through patience a ruler can be persuaded, and a gentle tongue can break a bone.” (Proverbs 25:15)

 Indeed, gentleness and patience often go hand in hand and maybe especially when it comes to reaching out with the gospel. We cannot bully people into the faith we need to persuade them gently and that can take time.

But it also needs respect. We are not trying to impose our point of view on them, rather we are seeking to introduce them to Jesus as Lord,

“But in your hearts set apart Christ as Lord. Always be ready to make your defence to anyone who demands from you an accounting for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and reverence.” (1 Peter 3:15-16)

Again, this can be difficult, because when we speak to non-Christians, who disagree with us, we can take it personally and if we are not careful, we can allow ourselves to be provoked and respond with anger or frustration. I remember, once having a conversation with some teaching colleagues about the faith back in the 1990s, and finding myself becoming quite worked up. It’s not helpful when that happens.

Evangelism is not about winning an argument, it’s not about proving yourself right, it is about sharing what you have discovered about Jesus in the hope that others will want it for themselves. We will only be persuasive if we do this with gentleness and respect.

A Gentler World

Indeed, as Christians living in a less gentle world, we should be modelling something different, a gentler world! People should be able to see in the way we relate to each other and to them, a gentleness that is attractive and welcoming.

They should see this characteristic as a reflection of the Messiah we follow, the one who gives us peace when we pray to him, who saves us by grace and who came as the humble one, riding on a donkey.

This Sunday – 14th June

“Brothers and sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently.”

(Galatians 6:1a)

This week, the sections of the email are:

  • Opening Reflection: Fruit of the Spirit: Gentleness
  • Key notices: Service Team Leaders Needed
  • Coming Up: Antonia – Mini-Opera,  Midsummer Yard Sale and Open Day, Men’s Group Croquet, Dare to Pray Meeting, Friends of St. George’s Art Show
  • Interesting Blogs: Social Media and Coming to Faith, Freya India’s Girls
  • Weekly Calendar
  • Online Forms: Event application, Submit a notice, maintenance report, Safeguarding

Scroll on…

Opening Reflection

At the Youth Life Group recently, we played Jenga. The game involves a tower of wooden blocks and you take it in turns to remove a block from lower down the tower and place it on top of the tower. You keep going until the tower falls over. To be successful you have to remove the blocks gently. Press or pull too hard and the whole tower falls down and, like me, you lose!

When working with fragile things you need to be gentle. Delicate items need to be handled with care, otherwise you may well end up breaking them.

People are fragile. We all have our emotional breaking points and if we are treated harshly or aggressively we may snap. We need to treat one another gently.

As Christians we want to challenge one another to become more Christ like, but if we try to push someone to change too quickly or too aggressively, then they may not be able to cope and just leave the church or give up on faith. That is why the verse above says, that when someone is caught in a sin, we need to go about restoring them gently.

Sin needs to be challenged, but in a way that enables restoration and spiritual growth, not in a way that destroys the other person. That means starting by trying to deal with issues privately and one to one rather than in a public setting that might bring shame and humiliation to the other (cf. Matthew 18:15-17). It also means approaching the issue in a gentle manner, rather than with an aggressive tone and not badgering or nagging someone to change quickly, but giving people time to grow into a Christ-like character. After all, that is the way God deals with us, gently changing us bit by bit into his likeness rather than demanding we become perfect overnight.

Paul Worledge

Key Notices:

Service Team Leaders Needed

Are you interested in taking on a key role in opening up and setting up for our Sunday Services on a once-a-month basis? We are looking to create a team of 4 or 5 people to carry out this important role. Check out the role description.

Coming Up:

Antonia – Mini-Opera

This One-Woman Mini-Opera about Marie Antoinette features Petra, the organist at St. George’s on the harpsichord. Tom Thumb Theatre, Margate, Friday 19th, 7:30pm. Find out more…

Midsummer Yard Sale and Open Day

10am-3pm, Saturday 20th June, St. George’s Church. Encourage people to come along! If you can help with a tower or crypt tour on the day, then please let Paul know asap. You can now purchase tickets for the tours on the website.

Men’s Group – Croquet

On Tuesday 23rd June, at 5:30 for 6pm, the men’s group are holding a Croquet Evening at the Croquet Club on the Ramsgate Royal Esplanade (near the boating pool). It is £10 each. Please let Bruce know asap if you would like to come (07708 682464, brucestikes@btinternet.com).

Dare to Pray, Prayer Meeting

Due to clashes on 20th June, the Dare to Pray prayer meeting this month will be on Saturday 27th June, 9:30-10:30am at St. George’s Church

Friends of St. George’s Art Show

This will run from 10th to 19th July, 2-5pm, in St. George’s Church. If you want to enter a painting, drawings, prints or mixed media contact Elaine on e_hartnell@yahoo.com or Janet on 01843 852780.

Interesting Blogs to Share:

Social media and coming to Faith

In this article, Freya India, writing from a Generation Z perspective, questions whether connecting with faith through social media alone is enough. Read more (5mins)

 

Freya India’s, Girls

If you are wondering who Freya India is and what she writes about, then this excellent article celebrates what Freya India does brilliantly (points out the problem for Generation Z women), but laments the lack of solutions… Read more (2 mins)

Weekly Calendar

Sunday 14th June – Second Sunday after Trinity

Eucharist (St. George’s Church) Galatians 6:1-10 – 9:30am

Monday 15th 

Prayer Meeting (St. Luke’s Church) – 9:30-10:00am

Tuesday 16th 

Prayer Meeting (St. George’s Church) – 9:30-10:00am

Community Meal (St. George’s Hall) – 5:30-7:00pm

Wednesday 17th 

Community Soup (St. George’s Church) – 12:00-2:00pm

Thursday 18th  

Prayer Meeting (St. Luke’s Church) – 9:30-10:00am

Saturday 20th  

Prayer Meeting (St. George’s Church) – 9:30-10:00am

Midsummer Yard Sale (St. George’s Church) – 10:00am-3:00pm

Community Soup (St. George’s Church) – 12:00-2:00pm

Sunday 21st – Third Sunday after Trinity

Eucharist (St. George’s Church) 2 Peter 1:1-11 – 9:30am

Life Groups

Will you dare to share the Christian life with others? Life groups are a great way to meet together regularly with a small group of other Christians, for mutual support, to share in reading God’s word and to pray for one another.

Please see Paul if you are interested in joining one. There are now more groups available! They meet at the following times:

  • Monday evening (two groups)
  • Tuesday afternoon
  • Wednesday morning
  • Wednesday evening
  • Thursday morning

There is also a youth life group on a Sunday afternoon.

Online Forms:

Under the ‘Contact’ tab on the website, there are now three forms that you can use to help us in managing the church:

  • Events Application Form. Use this if you are organising a church event that needs a church room booked, advertising or ticketing.
  • Submit a Notice. Use this if you want to ask us to include a prayer request or other notice in the church notice sheet or email.
  • Maintenance Reporting Form.Use this to report any non-urgent issues with our buildings or grounds.

Safeguarding

Our website is now updated with the latest information about Safeguarding and links to the Diocesan form for reporting concerns and accessing training.

Training

If you volunteer in anyway at church the national authorities you should take at least the Basic Module in safeguarding training once every three years. If you hold a role connected with vulnerable adults or children and young people, then you will also need to take the Foundation Module. Once you have completed your training, please forward that certificate to James, our administrator, (office@churchramsgate.org) so that we can keep records of who has done the training.

Finally, let’s keep being faithful!

Yours in Christ

Paul Worledge

(Priest in Charge, St. George’s Ramsgate)

Fruit of the Spirit: Faithful (Matthew 5:31-37)

“Know therefore that the LORD your God is God; he is the faithful God, keeping his covenant of love to a thousand generations of those who love him and keep his commands.” (Deuteronomy 7:9)

This Sunday we return to our series on the Fruit of the Spirit, this week focussing on the characteristic of faithfulness.

As recorded at St. Luke’s

Fruit of the Spirit: Faithfulness (Matthew 5:32-37)

What does faithfulness look like?

Michael Hyatt an American leadership guru tells of an experience early in his career. He was given the job of marketing director at one of the larger publishing houses in the US, even though he didn’t have any experience.

So, his boss put him on an informal three-month probationary period, so that if it didn’t work out, they could give up on the experiment and Michael would leave and look for another job, but if things went well, he would be kept on and given a 10% pay rise.

Michael worked and studied hard to succeed at the job and things went really well. When it came to the end of the probationary period, he was actually looking forward to the end of probation review.

His boss started off by commending him for doing so well and told him he was really impressed with how hard he had worked and how well he had done. Then he told him there was a problem. The company had instituted a wage freeze. They wouldn’t pay him the extra 10% that had been promised on the completion of a successful probationary period.

Michael felt deeply disappointed. But then something amazing happened.

His boss handed him an envelope. In the envelope was a cheque for the extra 10% that had been promised, which his boss had decided to pay out of his own money. The boss felt he had made a commitment to Michael and he needed to live up to it, even though it cost him.

This is an amazing example of what it means to be faithful. To stick to your promises, even when it costs you or hurts you to do so.

Faithfulness the 7th Characteristic of the Fruit of the Spirit

We are going through a series on the Fruit of the Spirit. In Galatians, Paul lists nine characteristics of the fruit of the Spirit, characteristics that we learn as Christians when we learn to keep in step with the Spirits, the kind of characteristics that reflect the very character of God.

We have already looked at six of the characteristics in two bouts of three. Now we are starting on the last three. So, this week, it is the seventh characteristic, which is faithfulness.

Faith is at the heart of what it is to be a Christian. The key Christian message is that we are saved when we put our faith in Jesus Christ.

But faith and faithfulness are two-sides of the same coin. You have faith in someone because they are faithful. You can trust someone when they are trustworthy. You depend on someone when you think they are reliable. As Christians, we have faith in the God of Jesus Christ, because we believe he is faithful.

God is Faithful

The New Testament is clear that we can trust God, that he is faithful.

Because God is faithful, we can be confident that we are protected and secure:

“But the Lord is faithful, and he will strengthen and protect you from the evil one.” (2 Thessalonians 3:3)

Because God is faithful, we can have hope:

“Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for he who promised is faithful.” (Hebrews 10:23)

Because God is faithful, we can know that our sins are forgiven:

“If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.” (1 John 1:9)

Indeed, the whole Biblical narrative is set up to show God’s faithfulness. At its most basic, the plot of the Bible is that God makes promises and God proves faithful to the promises, despite the unfaithfulness of his people.

God promised Abraham that he would become a great nation. The first half of the Old Testament, shows bit by bit, how God fulfilled that promise until, by the time of David, Abraham’s descendants were indeed, a great nation.

Then God promises, David, that there would always be one of his descendants on the throne. This remained true in Jerusalem for hundreds of years. But in the end Jerusalem became incorporated into the great empires of the time.

Yet, the prophets said, God’s promise to David was not forgotten, a Messiah would come to sit on his throne.

Then comes Jesus, who is both the descendant of David, who rules on a far greater and eternal throne at God’s right hand not as king in Jerusalem, but as king of the universe and who truly blesses all nations, by dying for the whole world and sending his followers to share the good news with all nations.

As Paul says in 2 Corinthians:

“For no matter how many promises God has made, they are “Yes” in Christ.” (2 Corinthians 1:20)

The whole story of the Bible points to the faithfulness of God.

And if faithfulness is a key characteristic of God, then as those who have His Holy Spirit within us, it will be a key characteristic for us as well.

Our Faithfulness:

So, what will our faithfulness look like? It will mean that we are honest and reliable.

Honest with the Truth

First of all to be faithful means to be honest. It means people should be able to trust what we say as speaking the truth.

Honest speaking is so important. It is impossible to make a good decision unless people tell the truth.

Take a court of law. If the witnesses do not speak the truth, then justice will not be done and either the guilty will go free or the innocent will be condemned.

So, for us as Christians, we need to be people who can be trusted to speak the truth. We need to be trusted to speak the truth about what God says. Paul says to Timothy,

“and what you have heard from me through many witnesses entrust to faithful people who will be able to teach others as well.” (2 Timothy 2:2)

In preaching or teaching the Christian message, whether in conversations with friends in the workplace, at home with the family or from the front of church, we need to speak God’s word faithfully. That takes courage. The temptation is always to speak in a way, so as to please those who are listening to us, rather than to be honest about the truth. To be a faithful messenger of Christ means being willing to say the hard truths when they need to be heard.

Honest with Promises

It also requires being honest with what you promise. In our reading from the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus challenges the people of his day about the practice of adding special ‘oaths to what they say’.

But he says you should not need to make an oath:

“Rather, let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes’ and your ‘No’ be ‘No’. Anything more is from the Evil One.” (Matthew 5:37)

In other words, we should be faithful in everything we say, not just when we are made to swear a special oath. He is not saying we should not swear an oath when we are required to do so, as in a court of law, but that we should treat all that we say in the same way. All of it needs to be faithful and true.

This requires wisdom and courage. We need to be careful about what we promise. It can be easy to promise to do something, because you do not want to disappoint someone, but we should be willing to say we cannot commit, or to explicitly say, I won’t promise anything, but I’ll do my best, rather than commit to something we know we will not be able to do.

It is better not to make rash promises, than to make a promise you do not want to keep. Because being faithful also means being reliable, not just saying what you will do, but doing what you say.

Reliable

Reliability is an aspect of faithfulness, that means we keep our promises, but we also carry out the duties entrusted to us.

In talking about our role as Christians, Jesus compares himself with a master who entrusts his servants with resources whilst he goes away. Those servants who do what is expected he commends:

“His master replied, `Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master’s happiness!'” (Matthew 25:21)

Jesus expects us to be reliable in carrying out our duties as Christians in this life.

In the same way, we should be reliable in keeping our promises. That is not always easy. At times to keep your promises means making sacrifices. If you have promised one friend to be at their party, but then another friend invites you to a more exciting party, then the cost of keeping your promise is missing out on the better party.

If you have agreed to accept an offer on a house, but then a better offer comes along, then the cost of keeping your promise, is to lose out on the money you might have had on the better offer.

As we saw in the example in the introduction, being faithful can at times mean having to make sacrifices.

So, being faithful means sticking with your promises, but also carrying out the duties entrusted to us as volunteers, employees or even in marriage.

Marital Faithfulness

Marriage is of course a relationship based on promises. The vows made at a wedding ceremony are important promises and at times they can be hard to keep.

 In Jesus, day, many people were quoting the verse from Deuteronomy:

“Anyone who divorces his wife must give her a certificate of divorce.” (Deuteronomy 24:1)

and claimed that a man could divorce his wife whenever he became fed up with her.

 But Jesus is clear that although there may be serious reasons that require divorce, like your husband or wife having an affair, God’s plan for marriage is for it to be a permanent union. Later in Matthew he says,

“What God has joined together, let no one separate.” (Matthew 19:6)

So, to be reliable in marriage will take sacrifice. It will mean putting up with the times when you find each other annoying, it will mean sticking by an ill husband or wife and coping when they are made redundant and the money is tight. This can feel like sacrifice, but it is worth keeping with it.

It can also mean saying, ‘No!’ to the potential affair with the more attractive or charming person who offers themselves to you. This too can feel like a sacrifice, but it is worth keeping with it.

 And to be faithful in marriage means more than just sticking with it, it means working at it, being faithful to the role that has been entrusted to you to love, cherish and care for your husband or wife.

Sadly, many marriages do fail. You can be the perfect husband or wife, but if your partner is unfaithful or bails on the marriage, you can still find yourself divorced. Even if you know that your marriage failed partly or even wholly because of you, Jesus is also clear that his forgiveness covers all sins. We should never want divorce, but if it comes, we can still turn to the one who is ultimately faithful and true, Jesus Christ.

Faithfulness is a key characteristic for marriage. But I think all the characteristics of the fruit of the Spirit will help to create a flourishing marriage. The more you can both grow in the characteristics of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control, the more your marriage will be amazing. 

The Man on the White Horse

Faithfulness is a hard characteristic to put into practice, whether in marriage or life more generally. At times it takes courage and sacrifice. But when we do, we will find that our relationships with others flourish. The more they see we can be trusted, the more they will trust us. That will mean we have a greater opportunity to share the good news about the one who is ultimately faithful.

Remember that with all the characteristics of the fruit of the Spirit, Jesus is our model.

At the end of the Bible, there is a vision of Jesus leading the forces of heaven to their ultimate victory over evil:

“I saw heaven standing open and there before me was a white horse, whose rider is called Faithful and True.” (Revelation 19:11)